Before you start completing the Motion for Ex Parte (Emergency) Relief, make sure you have the following information ready:
Case & Court Information
Court Name (Family Division location)
Case Number (if already assigned)
Case Name – In the matter of [Petitioner] and [Respondent]
Party Information
For both the Petitioner and Respondent, gather:
Full legal name (first, middle, last, and suffix if applicable)
Complete address (street, town/city, state, ZIP code)
Telephone number and email address
Employment information (if needed for context)
Case Background
Whether this case is already pending before the Court
Whether the parties are or were married
Whether the Court has previously issued any orders in this case
If yes: Type of orders, and the date(s) issued
Whether the parties have any minor children, and if those children are at issue in this motion
Child Information (if applicable)
If children are involved, prepare the following details:
Current Information
Full legal name of each child
Date of birth
Current legal residence
Prior Residences
For each child:
Dates (from/to) of previous addresses
Town/City, State
Address and name of parent/caretaker at that residence
Which child(ren) the address applies to
Court History
The date and type of the most recent court event (if any)
Whether another court event is already scheduled, and if so:
Type of event (hearing, review, etc.)
Date of next court event
Emergency Request Details
Be ready to explain why immediate (ex parte) orders are necessary.
Include:
The reason for seeking emergency relief (choose or specify: domestic violence, safety, removal of child, etc.)
The potential harm or risk if the orders are not granted
Who will suffer the harm (yourself, the child, or both)
Any known criminal or dangerous behavior by the other party
Supporting Facts & Incidents
Prepare detailed information about the events or incidents leading up to this motion:
Description of each incident (what happened, when, and where)
Source(s) of information (personal observation, report, witness, etc.)
Any incidents within the last 2–5 years that support the request
If there are no recent incidents, note: “Events/incidents in the last 2–5 years – N/A.”
Communication & Attempts to Resolve
Whether you attempted in good faith to reach agreement with the other side:
If yes: Date, time, method (phone, email, text), and result of that communication
If no: Explain why a good faith attempt was not made (e.g., risk of harm, futility)
Whether you advised the other party to contact the Court and if they responded
Requested Relief
List each specific order you are requesting from the Court. Examples may include:
Temporary custody or parenting time restrictions
No contact or limited communication provisions
Protection for child(ren)’s residence or relocation
Exclusive use of marital residence
Suspension of certain orders pending hearing
Any other immediate relief required for safety
Also include:
Any dates you are unavailable for a future hearing
A request that the Court schedule the hearing as soon as possible
Certification & Signatures
You’ll need:
Your signature as the filing party
Current address, phone number, and email
Notary acknowledgment section completed (with seal and commission expiration)
If represented, Attorney name, signature, and address
Certification Section:
Confirm that a copy of this Motion was provided to the other party:
Name of recipient
Date provided
Method of delivery (mail, email, in-person, etc.)